Hi, I'm Laurie Love!
Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ and Intimacy Coach
I empower individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy, by fostering a deeper connection and understanding of oneself and your relationships through the 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™.
Start Your Journey to More Intimacy with a private, complimentary one-on-one session where we’ll dive into your desires, look at what is holding you back, brainstorm on ways to get what you want and see how I can support you.
My Story...
About 15 years ago after the happy love hormones wore off, I got to a point in my relationship where sex wasn’t feeling fun, easy, satisfying or even very pleasurable. When it came to sex, I always thought there was something wrong with me.
Why wasn’t I having these intense "mind-blowing" orgasms that I heard people talking about?
I felt so depressed, disconnected from my partner and totally frustrated...So I sought help! I was introduced to Jaiya, a somatic sexologist who developed the 5 Erotic Blueprint types™ framework, and this knowledge unlocked the door to my frustration with my sex life. My partner & I went to practically every seminar, program, training, and retreat Jaiya offered for years and even did VIP coaching with her for a year! As I learned about the Erotic Blueprint types, I realized that I was having sexual experiences in the WRONG Blueprint type for me.
This insight was the key to unlocking my frustration and opened the door to a new level of communicating my desires, ways of touch in my primary blueprint, and healing the shadows I identified in each blueprint, which has lead to me having the BEST SEX LIFE EVER with my partner (even after 20+ years of being together)!
The Erotic Blueprints..
And why they are a game changer for your sex life!
Some say the Erotic Blueprints are like the “Love Languages” but for sex & intimacy. I call them “the Sex Education I never had, until now” and they were the game changer for me in my sex life. After I identified my Primary Erotic Blueprint type™, as well as my partners, and dove in to learning more about the 5 Erotic Blueprint types™, our relationship and sex life changed dramatically for the better.
I discovered what really fed me and learned how to communicate what I wanted in bed, which I had never done with anyone before, because I was too shy and honestly, I didn’t know what I really wanted.
So, after healing the frustration I had felt and put up with for so long, I became a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ because I wanted to share this life changing knowledge with others in search of help, be the safe person that people go to with their problems around sex, and help people feel more comfortable opening up and sharing their deepest truths to live the sex life they have always wanted.
I have found the Erotic blueprints to be transformative on so many levels. Healthy sex education is so important to me! I am excited to share and continue to learn with all of you!
Let's put our Pleasure First!
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I started to understand what truly pleasures me!
Before discovering the Erotic Blueprints, intimacy felt like guesswork and going through the motions. But once I identified my primary erotic blueprint type, everything changed. We finally understood what deeply fulfilled me, creating more passion, connection, and ease in our relationship.
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I started to communicate my desires without frustration!
For years, I struggled to express what I truly wanted in bed—partly because I didn’t know, and partly because I felt too frustrated. Learning how I am wired for pleasure gave me the confidence to communicate openly. Instead of judgement or criticism, intimacy became playful and collaborative.
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Healing & Embracing Pleasure
Like so many, I carried frustration and unspoken needs for years. The Erotic Blueprints gave me permission to prioritize pleasure, embrace my desires, and create a deeply satisfying relationship. This transformation led me to become an Erotic Blueprint coach, so I can help others feel safe, seen, and free in their intimacy journey.
Invitation to My World
A Safe Space to Explore, Connect, and Deepen Intimacy!
My world is where open conversations, expert guidance, and real connections help you create a more fulfilling love life—without judgment, pressure, or spam.
Just meaningful conversations and valuable resources to help you thrive.
Fun Facts About Me & My Love Affair with Life (and Breakfast)!
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Born & Raised a Cali Girl – I have lived in Southern California my whole life with a bug for traveling (9 countries down, the world to go!).
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Love, but Make it Unconventional – Married at 21, divorced by 24. Now, 22+ years strong with my guy—no rings, just real connection. (Who knew divorce could be the ultimate matchmaker?!)
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Erotic Blueprint Enthusiast – My profile - Energetic, Sensual & Kinky (Psychological kink? Yes, please! Taboo is hot, premarital s e x is totally my thing—see above 😂).
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Turn-Ons & Adventures – Crave High arousal? Check. Sexy outfits & selfies? Double check. Pole dancing for fun & fitness? You bet.
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Ski Bunny Status – I hate to be cold, but LOVE powder skiing. (Alaska heli-skiing for my birthday! Here we come! Manifesting it now!)
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Dog Mom Life – My 4-year-old super mutt Breezy is my absolute love.
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Burner Free Spirit – 3 Burns in and ready for the next!
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Breakfast is my Ultimate Lover – I love ordering room service & having breakfast in bed! Eggs? Scrambled only, please. Belgian waffles? Maple syrup & whipped cream, yes, with strawberries on the side. French toast? Slathered in peanut butter & maple syrup (don’t knock it ‘til you try it!). I realized recently that I am a Shapeshifter when it comes to food! I want it all and more please! I'll take the one of everything special.
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Passion for Travel – India, Japan, the Mediterranean, Maldives & an African safari are next on my dream list!
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Sleeping Naked is a Whole Mood – It was weird at first (RIP lifelong PJs), but now? Never going back.
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From Accounting to S e x Coaching – Numbers were fun, but helping people have mind-blowing orgasms? Way more satisfying!
I started this journey because I wanted to have a mind blowing orgasm that just happened—not because I was lighting a fire, but because I was throwing a log on the already hot coals. (Know what I mean? 😉)
Now, I help others discover their own pathway to pleasure, because trust me—life’s too short for bad s e x and boring breakfasts!
"Highly recommend Laurie!! She is relatable, warm and made everyone feel so comfortable and safe!"
-Chantal
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